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The Mystery of the Trinity

Wednesday, May 18th, 2016

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Friends,

According to the traditions of the Church calendar, this coming Sunday is Trinity Sunday, a day I love because I love the Trinity. Not only is the Trinity comprised of “The Three Men I Admire Most” (to quote a song), but the doctrine of the Trinity is a belief that connects Christians to the divine mystery of God.

Or at least the Trinity has the potential to connect people to God’s mystery. The Trinity is also a matter of theological orthodoxy, which means that over the years a lot of folks have become overly attached to their beliefs about God being at the same time one and three. But it doesn’t have to be this way.

The Trinity is an idea that makes no sense. God cannot be one and three any more than a circle can be a square. Yet for at least 1700 years, most Christians have affirmed this logical impossibility as a core belief, which is wonderful. Our faith is built on something that cannot be explained. It’s a mystery, which is something that should prevent us from taking ourselves or our religion too seriously.

When it comes to religion, not taking one’s self too seriously is a moral virtue. As far as I know, no one has ever committed acts of terror or violence in God’s name after saying, “My beliefs about God are an illogical mystery.”

So I say, “Three cheers for the Trinity!” I believe in celebrating those beliefs that must be imagined rather than explained. May such beliefs keep us humble and peaceable and filled with joy.

So friends,

            The Creator who brought order out of chaos,

                        give peace to you.

            The Savior who stilled the raging storm,

                        give peace to you

            The Spirit who broods on the deeps,

                        give peace to you.

And in all things may the Trinity mystery instruct your faith so that yours is a religion of joyful and humble good will.

God’s Peace,

Ben

 

This Spot is Brought to You by the Upcoming Youth Pasta Dinner!

Friday, May 13th, 2016

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Don’t miss this fun fundraiser on Saturday, May 21st, 6-8 PM in the Family Room, as the Youth Group raise funds for their trip to Chicago. Featuring excellent food, fancy waiters, mocktails, and Karaoke entertainment!

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GWYNETH MORELAND CONCERT

Friday, May 13th, 2016

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Peace Church

Wednesday, May 11th, 2016

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Friends,

Back in March, my friend Geoff Browning paid a visit to MPC to preach and to talk to us about what it might look like for our congregation to consider self-identifying as a “Peace Church”, a designation that would recognize our congregation’s historic commitment to peacemaking, and opposition to America’s various and ongoing wars. A peace church designation might also allow the young people of the church to register as pacifists and opt out of a possible draft.

The process of becoming a peace church involves a lot of conversations. We have to discern if we, as a congregation, really do oppose war and, if so, on what terms. We need to explore historical expressions of Christian pacifism and decide if they give voice to our beliefs. If they don’t, we need to talk about new ways of expressing our opposition to violence.

After our conversations, we may decide not to self-designate as a peace church. But it seems to me that the conversation is important, and for that reason I’d like to invite you to join me and the Social Justice and Peacemaking Committee in a conversation about what it might look like for us to be a peace church. We will be meeting on Tuesday, May 24th at 7PM in the Thornhill room. I hope you can join us for this important conversation.

God’s Peace,

Ben

 

PENTECOST

Wednesday, May 11th, 2016

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THIS SUNDAY IS PENTECOST 

PLEASE WEAR RED!

This Sunday, May 15th, is Pentecost Sunday, when we celebrate the birth of the early church. We celebrate the story of how the disciples were filled with the Holy Spirit, and how they transformed from followers into leaders, beginning to share the good news with people of every nation and language. One fun thing about Pentecost is that we celebrate it with the liturgical color red – for joy, and for the fire-like presence of the Spirit. The sanctuary will be decked out in red, and we invite you to join in this festive celebration by wearing red as well, or by receiving a red ribbon at the door when you enter. See you Sunday!

 

This Spot is Brought to You by the Upcoming Youth Pasta Dinner

Wednesday, May 11th, 2016

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Yes, back by popular demand! The youth haven’t had a pasta dinner in several years, and we wondered if the event would be missed… the answer is YES. We want to feed you some pasta! The youth haven’t had the chance to don their classy white aprons, bowties and top hats (not to mention the fake mustaches) and do their best impressions of Italian waiters in a very long time. They are excited to serve you with all the panache they can muster up.

But at the same time, they are going to invite you to cut loose a bit. This time, it’s not just going to be a regular pasta dinner… but a pasta dinner with karaoke! We know that many of you have a song or two up your sleeve, and are just waiting for the right time… with a glass of wine in hand if needed, and your most trusted MPC friends watching appreciatively… are you ready to bust out your best songs?

Well, whether you are ready to sing or just to sit back and be charmed by your teenage wait staff, please plan to attend our great pasta dinner fundraiser on May 21st, 6-8PM. It is unusual for us to have three fundraisers in one year, but this is a very big year and we have a lot of fundraising needs. I’m thrilled to share that we are sending our largest delegation EVER to the Presbyterian Youth Triennium. This huge convention happens every three years, and after years of not sending delegates, in 2013 we made great progress by sending four youth with Katie Morrison. They came back raving about the life-changing experience they had, and they were strengthened in their faith. This year we send ten youth and one adult, and our church alone will make up nearly half of the San Francisco Presbytery delegation. Way to represent! Following Triennium, which is in Indiana, we will have an even larger group go on a mission trip. A whopping sixteen youth and three adults will spend a week working in partnership with community organizations in Chicago. By doing the mission trip so near to Triennium, we reduce our travel costs and our carbon footprint.

We greatly appreciate your generosity in continuing to fund the youth group programs. Not only do we have a larger group than ever before, but we also have more youth who rely on scholarship funds to make these adventures possible. So thank you for changing lives, one plate of pasta at a time.

 

 

MPC is proud to host the OEBGMC concert

Thursday, May 5th, 2016

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Pride and Joy The East Bay Gay Men’s Chorus and two special guests will hold their benefit concert here at MPC on May 14th and 15th. Come listen to their “Pride and Joy”, and be a part of contributing to great causes!

“Pride & Joy” brings a vast array of repertoire from George Frederic Handel and Stephen Paulus to The Pointer Sisters and even Santana. Our program includes two sumptuous pieces by the late Dave Brubeck, and a new work by Jack Curtis Dubowsky. We are also honored to premiere a new piece by world-renowned composer Gabriela Lena Frank. Ms. Frank is one of the foremost American composers and has crafted this work specifically for OEBGMC.

We are thrilled to have two guest groups share the stage with OEBGMC. The Berkeley Community Chamber Singers, currently under the direction of Derek Tam, is a small a cappella ensemble of the Berkeley Community Chorus and Orchestra. The Lesbian/Gay Chorus of San Francisco (LGCSF), established over 35 years ago, is one of the most prominent LGBTQ+ choruses in the nation, and the oldest to chorus to outwardly use both “gay” and “lesbian” in its name.

 

 

Marble Jar Friends

Thursday, May 5th, 2016

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TALITHA’S TAKE

I’m back from a lovely couple of days at snowy Lake Tahoe with the Company of New Pastors, my support team for the first few years. I met with the whole Company last fall, but this time it was just the western cohort. Californians, Washingtonians, pastors serving in Arizona and New Mexico, and one lucky Texan all gathered at the Presbyterian Conference Center for a few days of prayer and conversation with two experienced pastor mentors.

The main focus of our conversation was a book we all read, Brené Brown’s Daring Greatly. You may have read it yourself, or seen her TED talks. She is doing great work on courage and connection, and in a way I think she preaches the Gospel without using God-language. She tells us that the path to the good life is backwards, not through power, force, and control, but through risk, shame, and vulnerability. Blessed are the poor, and all that anti-common-sense stuff.

One image really stood out for me, an image of how we build trust in order to share vulnerably. She writes about the jar of marbles her daughter’s elementary school teacher kept as a way to measure the good and bad behavior of the class: “I told [my daughter] to think about her friendships as marble jars. Whenever someone supports you, or is kind to you, or sticks up for you, or honors what you share with them as private, you put marbles in their jar. When people are mean, or disrespectful, or share your secrets, marbles come out. When I asked her if it made sense, she nodded her head with excitement and said, ‘I’ve got marble jar friends! I’ve got marble jar friends!’” (Brené Brown, Daring Greatly: Gotham Books, 2012: p 48).

Building marble-jar friendships is important, because someday we may be flat on our backs needing help, and we will want to call on someone we can really trust. Everyone has different criteria for their marble jars. Some give marbles to those who send cards or call to check in, in times of need. Others give marbles to those they have learned to trust by working on projects together, and I think this is where our Presbyterian style of working together is really very effective. As a congregation we do incredible amounts of volunteer work and committee discussion, and this process can be great for building marble-jar friendships. The youth group gave a great BBQ lunch this Sunday, and I watched them all bonding over the cotton candy machine and the dishwasher.

All this is to say, I hope you have marble-jar friends at MPC. If you need to find ways to build more, you might let me, Ben, or someone from the Membership Team help you find a way to plug in. Whether talking heart-to-heart with a new friend, or distributing food side by side at the food pantry, we hope you can build these important relationships so our congregation can truly be the Body of Christ in our community.

Every Blessing,
Talitha

 

Pax Materna

Thursday, May 5th, 2016

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Friends,

As a rule I don’t do much to promote the celebration of Mothers’ Day in the Church, because I am mindful of the loneliness and sadness such celebrations cause those who do not have children, or who have difficult and dysfunctional relationships with their mothers.

I am aware, however, that Mother’s Day began not as a way to sell greeting cards (as is commonly assumed) but as an attempt to get mothers organized around working for peace. The idea was that for women the experience of motherhood might create a bond of solidarity that could transcend national aggression and lead to peace.

The suggestion that motherhood leads inevitably to nonviolence is a bit sentimental. Having two children did nothing to prevent Margaret Thatcher from leading the UK into the Falklands War; nor did motherhood prevent at least four US Senators (Feinstein, Lincoln, Landrieu, and Clinton) from voting to authorize the United States’ invasion of Iraq. Still, I tend to hope that empathy born of shared human experiences can lead us–regardless of gender or family situation–to seek peace, and for that reason I applaud the aspirations of Mothers’ Day’s founders.

In honor of Mothers’ Day’s original intent–and keenly aware that motherhood isn’t the only pathway into an experience of the kind of empathy and human connection that leads to peace–I’ll leave you with this statement from Another Mother for Peace, which my late aunt, the actor Donna Reed, helped write and promote during the Vietnam War:

I join with my sisters in every land in The Pax Materna—
A permanent declaration of peace
That transcends our ideological differences                                             
In the nuclear shadow, war is obsolete                                                                       
I will no longer suffer it in silence
Nor sustain it by complicity.
They shall not send my son
To fight another mother’s son                                                       
For now, forever, there is no mother  
Who is an enemy to another mother.

God’s Peace to you,

Ben

 

The Spirituality of a Slow Day

Wednesday, April 27th, 2016

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Friends,

Here’s a confession. It’s not always easy to think of something pithy and spiritually moving and—well—pastoral in my “Pastor’s Pen” spot. Sometimes my mind goes blank, and sometimes it’s too full of different ideas competing for space on the page.

The latter issue seems to have been the problem for me this week, and every time I thought maybe I was distilling my thoughts on, say, the nature of “Truth” or the importance of Surprise in the spiritual life, the phone would ring or I’d start jonesing for a cappuccino, or I’d get distracted by the need to push paper around on my desk, or my mind would wander off into how I might use John Calvin’s commentary on the sixteenth chapter of Book of Acts for my sermon next Sunday (spoiler alert: Calvin’s commentary on Acts 16 speaks of the importance of surprise in the spiritual life; listen for it on Sunday).

I was starting to despair: what if I never got my good, solid, pastoral, spiritually-minded, serenity-imparting, God-revealing column for the Contact? Then I realized that the Divine is as alive in the enjoyment of a cappuccino as She is in high minded thoughts about theological trivialities, and the ability to God in the act of doing paperwork or in conversations with friends, is an important part of the spiritual life.

So, in the end, a column about my writers’ block is really a column about God, or at least it can be, provided I’m willing to find God in the various distractions of a slow day in the office.

God’s Peace,

Ben