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Believing the Unbelievable

Thursday, April 2nd, 2015

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This week in Youth Group we had a bunch of space aliens asking questions of us and trying to figure out what a “Christian” was. The youth playing the part of aliens worked hard on their questions, from “are you born a Christian?” to “if someone is really nice and does good things, does that automatically make them a Christian?”

The youth playing the part of humans divided up into two groups where they came up with different explanations for what a Christian might be. When the aliens asked about God – “how do you know if God is real?” – one group said that the question was beside the point. To them, believing in God was much less essential than following the way of Jesus and doing what he taught us to do. The other group felt believing in God was important, but they said there was no way to know if God is real – you have to feel it in your heart and believe it.

As we approach the mystery of Easter I think we would all do well to listen to the wisdom of these youth. Like believing in God, believing in the resurrection can be baffling sometimes. The resurrection stories cause many people to stumble over their raw unbelievability… a three-day-dead body coming back to life?? But as the youth grappled with questions about believing in God, they shared some solid perspectives that we can take and keep with us. Our hearts can lead in this matter, and we can let our brains follow the heart’s lead. There are more important questions than “how?” and “what proof?”… We can ask “what difference does it make?” and “how does it affect your life?” instead. If people can see us practicing resurrection in our own lives, bringing back to life what has died, and standing against the injustice that kills innocent people, the question will be answered even before it is asked. As we walk into the darkness and mystery of Holy Week, let’s carry that strength with us, and be the ones to practice resurrection.

Every Blessing,
Talitha

 

Matching the Contour of the Spirit

Thursday, April 2nd, 2015

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Friends,

There are places in this world that are beautiful because God made them beautiful—think Yosemite, or an unspoiled Caribbean beach. There also are buildings made by humans that are wonderful—and would be wonderful regardless of where they were set, and here I’ll mention the Eiffel Tower and the Montclair branch of the Oakland Public Library because they both share a birthday with Montclair Presbyterian Church (I’d mention the Parthenon and the Salisbury Cathedral, but I don’t know the anniversary of their respective dedications). Then, there are places where both God’s creation and the genius of human architecture come together in ways that I find deeply moving.

San Francisco is a good example of what it looks like when people build buildings and bridges that match the created landscape, as is Mendocino (of course, on that I’m prejudiced because Mendocino is my home town, but never let it be said that for me, when it comes to my home town, familiarity has bread contempt). As much as I love both San Francisco and Mendocino, the most powerful example of this that I have experienced in my travels is around Lake Como, in Northern Italy, near where my great-grand parents (on my step-father’s side) were born. Somehow the people building cities such as Bellagio and Rezzonico knew how build settlements that developed in harmony with the mountains and lakes that were all around them, a practice that was emulated by wealthy and royal newcomers who, in later years (by which I mean during the 18 and 19th century) built impressive villas around the lake.

It seems to me that places like Lake Como, and San Francisco and Mendocino provide a nice metaphor for the spiritual life. As persons of faith we are seeking to build lives that live in harmony with God’s created order. I mean this ecologically, of course, and I also mean this socially and economically and artistically, but I’m also talking about the ways we shape our souls to match the contours of Spirit.

4.1.2015 Ben

During Holy Week, as we remember Jesus triumphal entry, his passion, death and resurrection we are given templates for the work of building spiritual lives that live in harmony with God’s created order. Palm Sunday and the subsequent days of teaching show us how to live in the prime of our lives; the last supper shows us the importance of intimacy as we walk into the shadowlands of betrayal; the passion and crucifixion teach us about faithful sacrifice, and they assure us of God’s empathy and love as we face struggles of our own, and the resurrection is a promise that in all things, God writes the final chapter in the story of our lives, and in the end, the sun rises after the darkest night, and the warmth and color of spring follows the cold winter, hope casts out fear and in all things love abides.

Wishing You God’s Peace for Holy Week,
Ben

 

Always Look On The Bright Side of Life?

Wednesday, April 1st, 2015

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Rev Ben brings Monty Python to MPC, using their song as a reminder to not skip over the suffering of Holy Week, but to dwell in it, and focus on the ways that God is with us through it all.

 

Were You There?

Sunday, March 29th, 2015

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Arranged by Harry Burleigh

 

Hosanna, Loud Hosanna

Sunday, March 29th, 2015

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By Jenette Threlfall
Arranged by Don Hart

 

Postcard Instead of Social Media?

Friday, March 27th, 2015

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Last week, for the first time ever, I un-friended someone on Facebook. Some of you who follow me on social media may know this guy—his name is David and he’s someone I knew in college. When we lived across the hall from one another during our freshmen year, we had an almost constant debate running. He came from a theologically fundamentalist and politically ultraconservative home; theologically, my upbringing was in the Evangelical mainstream, and politically it was somewhere between solidly liberal and radically left-wing. Both David and I liked to debate (OK, argue) issues.

But here’s the problem. The reincarnation of our argumentative relationship was toxic online. I want my Facebook page to be a safe place and David’s brusk and sometimes bullying style made it unsafe. Still, it was hard to unfriend David. I don’t like the idea of discontinuing a relationship—even if it is an online relationship—and I want to be the kind of person who maintains friendships and sustains conversation with folks whose ideas I find offbeat, out of whack or even offensive. Our society is far too polarized and fragmented; I believe we should be moving toward one another and not away, even when we have disagreements.

So there’s my struggle: I want to be the kind of friend who relishes my connections to people who hold a variety of beliefs, but I also want my online community to feel safe. It’s an almost koan-like quandary. Perhaps I need to sit with it a while. Or, there’s this option: my Lenten discipline was to send postcards to old friends. It felt like a more authentic kind of communication and a more profound expression of friendship than is available on social media. Maybe I’ll send David a postcard.

What do you think?
Ben

 

The Presbyterian Church (USA)

Friday, March 27th, 2015

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Are you proud to be a Presbyterian? Some of you on one hand probably don’t know or care what Presbyterian means, and on the other hand some of you probably are such loyal life-long Presbyterians that you’ve never had to ask that question. Well, I’m proud to be Presbyterian, especially in a time such as this, when our national policy has just moved forward to specifically and clearly include marriages between two people. This has been a long time coming, and we are glad. We Presbyterians have a very slow-moving process, with General Assembly, our largest committee, meeting only every two years, and with amendments to our constitution (such as the one that just passed) requiring all local presbyteries to consider and vote on the amendments.

When Ben and I met with the Faith Exploration Program for our high schoolers we explained to them that they can become members at the end (after either being baptized or confirming their faith from infant baptism). Ben explained that members get to vote in congregational meetings and we got some blank stares. “THAT’S NOT ALL!” I jumped in. If you are a member you can be ordained as a ruling elder (Session member) and go to Presbytery! That’s another, bigger meeting, where you can vote too! And General Assembly! Well, I know a lot of you, whether youth or adults, are less excited than I am about big meetings and important votes, but I think this is terrifically exciting. I look at it like this: becoming a member or a ruling elder are ways to unlock new levels of participation in the Presbyterian game.

One of my favorite ways to play the Presbyterian game is at the General Assembly, the nation-wide gathering every 2 years. I went in 2008 as a student observer in San Jose, and again in 2010 as a student assistant in Minneapolis. I was quickly infected with an enormous enthusiasm for the workings of committees, the process of attempting consensus, the speak-outs, the passionate testimonies for social justice causes, and the huge worship services… not to mention the many friends I made there and the fun we had! As an observer I quickly started a new blog and named it “Madame Future Moderator.” As an assistant I geeked out on tech support and was thrilled when I got to sit up on the main stage, timing speeches. I will even confess that in 2012, when I was unable to attend in person, I live-streamed the whole assembly online, tweeting along and praying hard when a few important justice issues failed to pass or just squeaked by.

Next year (2016) MPC may have the opportunity to send some Ruling Elder delegates to the General Assembly. I hope that some of you will be interested, and perhaps even nominate yourselves for this role. Anyone who has been ordained and served on Session has leveled-up to qualify. I also hope that we might send some Youth Adult Advisory Delegates between the ages of 17-23. Your voice and vote will be heard and counted on major issues facing our world today, from our mission work to environmental and peace-making issues. I anticipate that divestment from fossil fuels will be one of the biggest items on the docket for 2016. If you are interested, talk to me or Ben!

Every Blessing,
Talitha

 

Gayle Forman and Jay Asher — We Are Here: A Benefit to Raise Hope and Awareness for Suicide Prevention and Mental Health Promotion

Sunday, March 22nd, 2015

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Author Gayle FormanOn Tuesday, April 21st at 7pm, join authors Gayle Forman (“If I Stay”) and Jay Asher (“Thirteen Reasons Why”) for a special event. “We Are Here: A Benefit to Raise Hope and Awareness for Suicide Prevention and Mental Health Promotion”, is sure to be an inspiring evening, and not to be missed.

About Gayle Forman

Gayle Forman is an award-winning, internationally bestselling author and journalist. She is the author of Just One Day and Just One Year, and the companion e-novella Just One Night, as well as the New York Times bestsellers If I Stay and Where She Went. She lives in Brooklyn, New York, with her husband and daughters. Source: Penguin Books

About Jay Asher

Author Jay Asher
JAY ASHER has worked at an independent bookstore, an outlet bookstore, a chain bookstore, and two public libraries. He hopes, someday, to work for a used bookstore. Thirteen Reasons Why is Ashner’s first published novel and it has been on the New York Times Bestseller list for more than 65 weeks and counting. Thirteen Reasons Why has won numerous awards including: Best Books for Young Adults (YALSA), Quick Picks for Reluctant YA Readers (YALSA), International Reading Assoc. – Young Adults’ Choices and Chicago Public Library Best Books, and numerous state awards. The audiobook was selected as a YALSA Amazing Audiobook for Young Adults. To find out more visit Jay onlineSource: Penguin Books

All are welcome to attend this free event. Donations to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention are greatly appreciated.

Parking will be available in the lot at nearby Thornhill Elementary School (see below); more parking info and directions info are available on MPC’s parking and directions page.

The book talk is co-sponsored by Great Good Place for Books in Montclair. You’ll have the option of purchasing the book from them right after the talk.

Gayle Forman Photo credit: Dennis Kleiman

 

 

Blessed Are The Greeks

Sunday, March 22nd, 2015

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Rev. Ben discusses John 12:20-33, focusing on Jesus’ joy at meeting the “outsiders” of the day, and how it relates to our current attempts to be as inclusive as possible, for the greater glory of God.

 

Psalm 23

Sunday, March 22nd, 2015

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Music by Bobby McFerrin