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Worry Wisdom

Sunday, March 2nd, 2014

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Rev. Melinda McClain talks about worry: how it’s important not to get caught up in the race for material and social success, and how it’s better to get our priorities straight and focus on love.

 

Don’t Worry, Be Happy

Sunday, March 2nd, 2014

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By Bobby McFerrin

 

Worry: Warts and All

Wednesday, February 26th, 2014

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Worry_dollsWorry and anxiety are two of the spiritual plagues of humanity that persist since ancient times. While our current age may also have pharmacological solutions to extreme anxiety, most of us could benefit from a spiritual approach too. What spiritual practices are helpful to you when you are worried or anxious?  See you in Celebration this Sunday at 10:00 a.m. as we explore this topic using Matthew 6:24-34 AND we’ll have a special musical Time with the Children created by our MPC choir!
Stay afterward for the Pancake Brunch hosted by the MPC Youth Group members. You’ll enjoy famously delicious whole-wheat pancakes, fruit, eggs, and roasted veggies. Take a chance on our Prize Wall when you make a donation in any denomination from $5 to $500. The youth are raising funds for their summer mission trip to Memphis, and every donation will help provide scholarships to those who would otherwise be unable to travel with us.

 

Irresistable Wisdom

Thursday, February 20th, 2014

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vector-of-a-cartoon-bull-dog-and-cat-playing-tug-of-war-coloring-page-outline-by-ron-leishman-16819How do we respond to violence? Disrespect? Oppression?  Put up with it? Ignore it?  Engage? Fight?  What do we do when there’s nothing we can do?  These are some of the questions that arise as we consider this week’s text from the Gospel of Matthew 5: 38-48.  Join us in Celebration at 10:00 a.m.

 

Dave Barry Author Talk at MPC

Wednesday, February 19th, 2014

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Dave Barry portraitThursday, March 13th at 7:00pm, Pulitzer Prize-winning humor author Dave Barry will be at MPC discussing his new book “You Can Date Boys When You’re Forty: Dave Barry on Parenting and Other Topics He Knows Very Little About“. We hope you can join us for what will surely be a wonderful evening of humor and (a tiny bit of) parenting insight.

From DaveBarry.com:

A brilliantly funny exploration of the twin mysteries of parenthood and families from the Pulitzer Prize winner and New York Times–bestselling author of Insane City.

In his New York Times–bestselling I’ll Mature When I’m Dead, Dave Barry embarked on the treacherous seas of adulthood, to hilarious results. What comes next? Parenthood, of course, and families.

In uproarious, brand-new pieces, Barry tackles everything from family trips, bat mitzvah parties and dating (he’s serious about that title: “When my daughter can legally commence dating—February 24, 2040—I intend to monitor her closely, even if I am deceased”) to funeral instructions (“I would like my eulogy to be given by William Shatner”), the differences between male and female friendships, the deeper meaning of Fifty Shades of Grey, and a father’s ultimate sacrifice: accompanying his daughter to a Justin Bieber concert (“It turns out that the noise teenaged girls make to express happiness is the same noise they would make if their feet were being gnawed off by badgers”).

All are welcome to attend this free event.

Parking will be available in the lot at nearby Thornhill Elementary School (see below); more parking info and directions info are available on MPC’s parking and directions page.

The book talk is co-sponsored by Great Good Place for Books in Montclair. You’ll have the option of purchasing the book from them right after the talk.

Photo credit: Daniel Portnoy

 

Corinthian Diversions

Thursday, February 13th, 2014

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imagesThis Sunday during morning Celebration at 10:00 a.m., we’re off to the ancient city of Corinth to learn from that early community of faith. Like many diverse communities, the Corinthian church struggled to find common ground and to continue to welcome more and more members. They also developed divided loyalties to different teachers. Of course, we never worry about such things in Oakland . . . Our service will also feature musical selections from french horn soloist Avery Hawthorne.

 

Through the eyes of an artist

Friday, February 7th, 2014

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flowers-of-fireThe miracles of the church seem to me to rest not so much upon faces or voices or healing power coming suddenly near to us from afar off, but upon our perceptions being made finer, so that for a moment our eyes can see and our ears can hear what is there about us always. – Willa Cather, (1873 -1947) U.S. novelist, poet and journalist

Growing up on the southern plains in the Texas panhandle, I have always appreciated the insights of Willa Cather. What she describes in such a plain and understandable way can also be described as the process of hermeneutics or the ways we account for our own view of the world in relationship to a text or situation.

We all have the ability to perceive things differently if we take into account the way our experiences, education, and current life situation affect our ability to make sense of the world. When we become completely aware of our own lenses and biases, then we can make shifts in perception in the same way that a painter may make use of a microscopic view or a scientist a telescopic view.

Over the years I have laughed at art critics and historians talk about the abstract expressionism of the great painter of the Southwest Georgia O’Keefe. Her paintings seem quite realistic to me because I have spent a lot of time in the high deserts where she painted things pretty much the way they actually look, albeit from different perspectives. For her flowers, she zooms in on the minute details, while her landscapes are sweeping vistas replete with the amazing colors of New Mexico.  If you aren’t familiar with O’Keefe’s work, don’t miss the new exhibit opening at the De Young Museum in San Francisco’s Golden Gate Park on February 15, 2014.

Poets are also prone to hermeneutical acrobatics. By zooming in (or way out), a poem can illuminate a particular aspect of life in a startling new way. And more often than not, such revelations become vehicles for spiritual growth.

Jane Hirshfield wrote a wonderful article about poetry and spirituality that issues a great invitation. She suggests that anyone seeking enlightenment or answers to a difficult question or some sort of spiritual intervention can simply take any anthology of poetry and let it fall open as it will and see what that random poem might say to the situation. “Any poetry worth the ink will work”, Hirschfield claims. In the article, she also identifies a number of poems that she has found spiritually enlivening. In our Grief and Spirituality group this past week at Montclair Presbyterian Church, we used the ancient Benedictine practice of lectio divina on Mary Oliver’s wonderful poem:

“The Summer Day”

Who made the world?
Who made the swan, and the black bear?
Who made the grasshopper?
This grasshopper, I mean-
the one who has flung herself out of the grass,
the one who is eating sugar out of my hand,
who is moving her jaws back and forth instead of up and down-
who is gazing around with her enormous and complicated eyes.
Now she lifts her pale forearms and thoroughly washes her face.
Now she snaps her wings open, and floats away.
I don’t know exactly what a prayer is.
I do know how to pay attention, how to fall down
into the grass, how to kneel down in the grass,
how to be idle and blessed, how to stroll through the fields,
which is what I have been doing all day.
Tell me, what else should I have done?
Doesn’t everything die at last, and too soon?
Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?

from New and Selected Poems, 1992
Beacon Press, Boston, MA

I’ve done this exercise with the Bible too and have often been amazed at how my perceptions shift when I simply stop, look, and read something differently.  If you find yourself a bit stuck, grab the Bible, a book of poetry and give it a try.

 

Light Wisdom with Salt

Thursday, February 6th, 2014

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saltAre you a “salt of the earth” type of person?  Would others say that you “bring light” into dark places?  We’ll take a look at these famous phrases from the gospel of Matthew and see what wisdom we can extract.  Leave your bushel baskets at home and come join us for Celebration this Sunday, February 9th at 10:00 a.m.

 

Blessed are the Music Makers!

Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

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Pete SeegerIn Celebration this Sunday, we will honor the life and legacy of Pete Seeger by singing a rousing version of “I Had a Hammer” for our closing song. So tune your guitars, ukes, banjos, harmonicas, and mandolins, or shake the dust from your tambourines and then bring them at 9:45 a.m. for a quick run-thru. We’ll play it in G and click through to practice the harmonies with Peter, Paul and Mary.  At the core of Pete Seeger’s remarkable life was the notion that everyone can participate and everyone can make a difference in the world. He often spoke of himself as a “song leader”, but not a performer because his goal was to get everyone singing, not just listening to him.

It is also the first Sunday of the month when children are invited to stay in Celebration as part of Family Sunday. The sermon will be on the beatitudes from Matthew and the music will be inviting for folks of all ages. Join us!

 

Jazz@Montclair

Tuesday, January 28th, 2014

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Medium Jazz-MontclairPlease join us for an evening of food, wine, and tunes from the Great American Songbook to benefit the ministry and mission of Montclair Presbyterian Church.  Our own Melinda V. McLain will be singing with the amazing Tom Dambly Quartet featuring:  Paul Blankenship, piano; Tim Kelly, bass; Joel Davel, drums; and Tom Dambly, trumpet.  The no-host bar and reception begins at 5:30 p.m. and the concert at 7:00 p.m. $10 suggested donation at the door, but all are welcome! Download a flyer here to send to your friends!