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Three Author Talks in September

Thursday, September 25th, 2014

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Book talk microphone photoWe’re thrilled to be hosting three author-led book talks in September:

Wednesday, September 3rd at 7pm, author and musician Sam Barry will present and read from Her Wild Oats, a novel by his late wife Kathi Kamen Goldmark. Sam will be joined by Guy Johnson and authors Peggy Orenstein and Frances Dinkelspiel. Read more about the event

Wednesday, September 10th at 7pm, authors Louise Greenspan, MD, and Julianna Deardorff, PhD will be at MPC discussing their new book “The New Puberty: How to Navigate Early Development in Today’s Girls”, a “reassuring, empowering guide” based on original research and clinical experience. Read more about the event

Monday, September 29th at 7pm, authors Paul Williams and Tracey Jackson will be at MPC discussing their new book “Gratitude and Trust: Six Affirmations That Will Change Your Life”. The book is drawn from Paul’s experience of twenty-four years in the recovery movement and Tracey’s daily quest for peace amid the difficulties of daily life. Read more about the event

Past author talks have included Anne Lamott, Michael Chabon, Garry Wills, Dave Barry and many others. Other author talks for 2014 are in the planning stages; info will be posted to the MPC site soon.

Photo by Tom Woodward

 

Peaceful Connections

Sunday, September 21st, 2014

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Rev. Ben Daniel draws connections between the International Day of Peace and climate change, showing how we are called to take action against the latter in order to truly achieve the former.

 

African Call to Peace

Sunday, September 21st, 2014

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Traditional Senegalese folk song, arranged by Patrick Liebergen

 

Hineh Ma Tov

Sunday, September 21st, 2014

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Hebrew folk song, arranged by Maurice Goldman

 

How Do You Grieve?

Friday, September 19th, 2014

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First, the good news: Kickoff Sunday was a terrific amount of fun, and our Godly Play and Youth Group programs are full to bursting. We had 16 children between the two Godly Play classrooms, and 28 youth meant the Youth Group room was barely big enough to fit us, much less play active games in. I am careful to steer clear of the illusion that bigger is better, and in fact I can already see that we will go through some growing pains as we adjust. But we have reason to rejoice and feel excited as we watch these programs stretch to include new people, so I will lift up a prayer of gratitude to God for these blessings.

Then, my mind turns to another program which started, flapped its wings a bit, but never really took off last year: the Grief and Spirituality Group. As I think of the congregation and our spiritual needs I am aware that we have had many deaths recently in our MPC family. There are also many people, who are dealing with transitions… going into or out of work, or retirement, new homes or old homes, new family, declining health, or perhaps dreams deferred or plans canceled. I am very aware that in our cheerful culture of success and positive thinking, we seldom take enough time to honor our griefs. We seldom get the opportunity to share them with one another or hold them up to God, not trying to fix or medicate away, but just to live with them. But here in our faith community we have the opportunity to live differently, and not to hide or deny the fullness of who we are and all we experience.

So I want to offer something for the benefit of those who need to take time to honor their griefs. But I don’t know who all of you are, nor what would work best. Please let me know what you would be interested in, with a simple online form here: http://goo.gl/Y00AYF (or you can call me directly at the office to share your ideas). I can imagine three different ways it could work: (1) a monthly drop-in group where anyone is welcome… keeping in mind however that we would need “critical mass” to keep this going, about three or four people at a minimum. (2) A covenant group that agrees together on mutually convenient times to meet. I would call the first meeting and would lead it, but would leave scheduling in the hands of the members. (3) A few events each year, for example evening church services where all are welcome, but where the theme is remembering our griefs. Please let me know what you would be willing to help provide for one another.

Every Blessing,
Talitha

 

No Time for Napping

Friday, September 19th, 2014

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Dear Friends,

Here’s a confession: sometimes it’s hard to get my Contact article in on time. Usually, this has nothing to do with finding something to say (sometimes I have writer’s block, but I am a preacher; we seldom are at a loss for words), rather, I have a hard time writing for Contact because I usually end up writing my column at about three o’clock in the afternoon, a time of day when I tend to be drowsy, and when I have a hard time getting motivated. I know a lot of writers, and, as far as I know, none of them write in the afternoon. Afternoons seem designed for napping, especially in September when it’s sunny and warm in Northern California.

Generally, my Contact writing gets pushed to the afternoon, because my mornings are filled with activity as I try to keep up with everything that going on here at Montclair Presbyterian Church. And there is a lot going on. Every time I open my calendar I am amazed at how much is happening–adult education, youth group activities, social justice actions, various administrative meetings, small groups, planning sessions, choir rehearsal, storytelling–ours is a mid-sized congregation with the tall-steeple schedule.

This is a good problem to have: our calendar is a sign of enthusiasm and excitement, and I couldn’t be happier. However, pitfalls can attend a church’s busy calendar as well, and here are a few ideas about how to negotiate the crowded schedule.

First, know that not everyone can make every event. If everyone came to everything the church has to offer, we’d all get burned out.

Second, don’t feel guilty if you need a night off. I love the fact that ours is a church with an attractive program that provides community for so many people. I also know that most people need a break from time to time. I always want church members to be engaged at church, and I know that the occasional rest makes church members able to engage with greater strength and intentionality.

Third, be patient as meetings, groups, events, and rehearsals overlap. Sherrill in the office does a great job of scheduling, but sometimes our various activities and goings on must happen at the same time (in different spaces, of course) and sometimes because of unavoidable time constraints big events get placed on successive days or in the same week. Such things are natural to a congregation brimming with life.

Finally, join me in giving thanks to God for a congregation so wonderfully endowed with energy and ideas and enthusiasm. I know I wouldn’t want it any other way, especially since there is coffee to keep me alert when–with everything going on–I start to feel drowsy when the afternoon is warm and a siesta’s siren song beckons as for the first time in hours I have time to think about what to write.

With Big Affection (and a fairly large yawn as well),
Ben

 

Join Us For Celebration:

Thursday, September 18th, 2014

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In celebration this Sunday (September 21) we will focus on the relationship between peacemaking and caring for the earth. Using liturgy, song, preaching and prayer we will dedicate ourselves to working for a peaceful future by building an ecologically sustainable economy. Join us!

 

Kickoff Sunday!

Wednesday, September 17th, 2014

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We are looking forward to seeing you all at Kickoff Sunday! This is such a great MPC tradition and I do believe everyone will enjoy the fun program we have planned. See below for details and reminders of what to bring.

Kickoff Sunday is a good excuse to get together and be merry, but it also marks important beginnings for the year. For example, we are adding a new Godly Play classroom, and so that program begins on Sunday. Children will be directed to the “orange” classroom (room 1) or the “green” classroom (room 4). On Kickoff Sunday we also begin Adult Education signups, and I am looking forward to enrolling in our Spanish class. And then, there is that mysterious new thing everyone’s been talking about… “Family Life Small Groups.” What are those, anyway?

When I arrived a year ago, I began meeting with Gretchen Garlinghouse to wrap our heads around one particular MPC issue. The Mission Study Report shared some interesting facts: in a church with 7 generations represented, many are only friends with those of their generation, and 22% of MPCers, according to our surveys, have no close friends at church. For many new people it feels hard to “break in” and to truly feel a part of the MPC community. So we want to provide ways to build intergenerational friendships. Thus, Family Life Small Groups have emerged through a year’s work of visioning, brainstorming, and organizing with a great group of people. You can sign up this week and next. If you missed the brochure that was handed out last Sunday in the bulletin, it is also available on our website. http://www.mpcfamily.org/events/family-life-small-groups.

These groups are intended to be short-term gatherings of the same people (i.e. not drop-in events) so that over the course of a few weeks or months you can get to know people in a deeper way. Each group has a theme, whether that is baking bread or cleaning up streams, and we ask you to commit to attending every time. And each group is limited in size, so…. hurry to sign up on Sunday! Call me at the office if you can’t make it then and need to register.

I thank God for the bursting energy, vision, and creativity we are enjoying at MPC!

Blessings,
Talitha

 

Will Scotland Become An Independant Nation?

Wednesday, September 17th, 2014

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When I was a teenager several members of my church got excited about the Sandinista revolution in Nicaragua. This was a time when many politically progressive Christians hoped the rebels who overthrew the U.S. backed dictatorship of Anastasio Somoza might have the opportunity to establish a government, and a Central America, that was the embodiment of liberal values espoused and shared by the American left.

During those years I watched as several members of my home church left for Nicaragua. They went to build houses and schools, and to see first-hand what was happening in that small and war-torn nation. My high school Spanish teacher, several of the folks who taught me in Sunday School, and my own brother was among their number, and when they returned I saw their pictures and listened to their stories with admiration and a longing to be a part of such a hopeful society as seemed to be unfolding along the shores of Lake Managua and in the highlands of Matagalpa.

Later, in my own travels through parts of Central America (though not Nicaragua) I met refugees, who had been brutalized by the Sandinista army, and I became somewhat disillusioned with the Sandinistas; but the hope and longing I felt prior to my disillusionment remained. It flew above the transom of my life’s ship like an albatross searching for dry land upon which to rest its weary wings.

Now I confess that bird has landed in Scotland. In 10 days the people of Scotland will vote in a referendum to decide if they should become a nation independent from United Kingdom, and I have found myself following the movement for Scottish independence with the same hope, the same longing, that people in my home church once reserved for the Sandinistas in Nicaragua.

The Scottish independence movement is driven largely by a desire, on the part of Scots, to have a government free from the dominance of big business and financial interests that drive the politics of Westminster (much in the same way these same interests determine the decision-making in Washington). If Scotland wins its independence and is able to rid itself from the influence of unfettered capitalism, the Scottish people will have the opportunity to establish a government that is more democratic, more people oriented, and with greater concern for the poor than the government currently calling the shots in Britain.

In addition, most of the folks who seek Scotland’s independence from the United Kingdom are committed to removing British submarine-based (and California-made) nuclear weapons from Scotland’s waters, and while much of Scotland’s economy, in the short term, will be based upon revenue from North Sea oil, long-term plans for Scotland’s economy include the development of sustainable energy generation using wind and tide power.

This mixture of economic justice and ecological concern appeals to me. There is, of course, no guarantee that hopes for a Scottish government based on progressive values will come to pass, even if independence is won, but the fact that so many people in Scotland are so eager to form a polity based upon the common good is inspiring. And regardless of how the vote turns out, any one of us as individuals can follow the example of those striving for Scottish independence, for independence starts in the human soul. We can live lives free from the dominance of business interests. We can choose people over money. We can choose a spiritual independence that shakes off the bonds of a consumer driven culture, that sees value in a nuclear-free world, and that hopes to preserve the health of the earth.

I’ll be watching next week’s referendum with interest, but whatever happens, Scotland already has helped me to be free.
Ben

 

Forgive Us Our Debts

Monday, September 15th, 2014

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On Kickoff Sunday, Pastor Ben Daniel discusses’ the Bible’s call for forgiveness, the way this theme has played out nationally over the past ten years, and the personal and societal price we pay when we do not forgive.