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Faith Trio action – Thursday, Dec. 31st

Tuesday, December 22nd, 2015

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faithtrio_foodbankJoin the Faith Trio and end 2015 by helping to alleviate hunger in Alameda County!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Faith Trio, an alliance of Montclair Presbyterian Church, Kehilla Community Synagogue, and the Islamic Cultural Center of Northern California, is organizing an interfaith volunteer project against hunger in Oakland on Thursday, December 31, 2015 at the Alameda County Community Food Bank. Everyone is invited to join in. Children age 10 or older are welcome to volunteer. We will volunteer for three hours doing tasks such as bagging fruit or boxing food for distribution. This is an enjoyable volunteer activity and the facility is clean and pleasant, a model of good organization with a very dedicated and capable staff.

Date: Thursday, December 31st, 2015
Time: 8:30 AM – 11:30 AM
Location: ACCFB 7900 Edgewater Dr, Oakland, CA
Phone: 510-635-3663

Volunteers to wear comfortable warm clothes and closed-toed shoes. Please arrive at 8:20 am to register and get oriented.

We have participated in similar interfaith volunteer activities for the past two years, on Dec. 31, 2013 and on December 31, 2014. In 2014 we got a great turnout of 25 volunteers from the participating congregations of St. Johns Episcopal Church, the Islamic Cultural Center, Temple Sinai, Montclair Presbyterian Church, and Kehilla Community Synagogue. Attached is a picture from the event. We also participated in similar volunteer interfaith events on other occasions. Ali Sheikholeslami of the Islamic Cultural Center of Northern California writes: “As you know these are difficult times for the people of all faiths that are witnessing the horrific massacres of innocent people around the world and the demonization of one another, by those who claim that they are defending us and our religion. I believe one of the best ways to combat these actions is to join together to do good for the needy.”

For information about the Alameda County Community Food Bank see Alameda County Food Bank website.

 

Confessions of an Advent grinch

Wednesday, December 16th, 2015

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For those of you who haven’t noticed, I’ll confess: I can be a bit grinchy during Advent. It’s an occupational hazard of the pastorate, to be honest, and I do succumb to the temptation. Yes, it’s true, I want to sing Advent hymns rather than Christmas carols… but with the exception of that most popular “O Come, O Come, Emmanuel,” people look at me like I’ve requested a Top 40 jukebox to spit out Mozart and Palestrina. Of course, it’s understandable that I want a religious Christmas rather than a secular one. And as a pastor I do feel a personal responsibility to speak for “those who sit in darkness, bowed beneath their sorrows’ load” in the face of the holly jolly ferocity of those who are determined to close their eyes to the darkness in some kind of denial, “simply having a wonderful Christmas time” with boxes and bows and big happy families. This is my job. The babe in the manger is a light in the darkness, and we can scarcely know the light if we don’t first recognize the darkness.

But.

Moderation in all things, even Advent.

I need to very deliberately take off my Advent Police uniform for a bit, for the sake of allowing gratitude and joy to grow, blossom, and flourish. So in that spirit, here are 5 totally un-Adventy early Christmas blessings, and I hope you can join me in enjoying them.

  1. Lights. Those little strings made of the metals of the earth, plastics refined from ancient fossil fuels, glass, color, and delight – not to mention the electricity that flows at will from our walls and battery packs. For the resources of the earth, for scientists and electricians who work and play with it, and for the cheer it brings, we give thanks.
  2. BABIES. Because whether they are squalling in a coffee shop or smiling perfectly in a posed photo, in each baby we can see the miracle of life, and the wonders of exploring the world. For each baby that could be the Christ Child come again, we give thanks.
  3. Letters and cards. The taken-for-granted privilege of having things delivered right to your own home. The anticipation as you check the return address, wondering who thought of you as they addressed and stamped. (By the way, your MPC church staff also appreciates receiving your cards or year-end-photo-roundup letters, and will post them in the Family Room for wider enjoyment!) For those who send and those who deliver, we give thanks.
  4. Music. Because what is not amazing about our vocal cords which can so precisely tune to one another in unison or harmony? What is not amazing about a piano’s hundreds of strings, a violin’s exact architecture, or the complexity of a tuba? For humanity’s musical abilities, talents, and craft, we give thanks.
  5. Cold weather. Because although we don’t really dream of a white Christmas in Oakland, we do dream vicariously for the sake of Tahoe and our neighboring mountain ranges, that they may be abundantly blessed with snow. For this we will endure the cold, knowing El Niño may yet deliver us from drought, and we will give thanks.

May you be delivered from all grinchiness, and be grateful.

Blessings,
Talitha

 

Freed from our fear

Wednesday, December 16th, 2015

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On Tuesday, a tweet washed up over the digital transom of the slow and somewhat unevenly-keeled rowboat that is my presence on social media–a platform where (it seems to me) everyone else is tooling around on the electronic equivalent of speedboats while I pull on oars that would be happier in an era of print media.

But at any rate, here’s what the tweet said:

@revbennyd: How to free #Islam from #extremism?

Attached to the tweet was a link to a series of articles that gave a few suggestions for how to free Islam from Extremism, most of which seemed sort of unrealistic. It is, however, a fair question and I tweeted back a few of my ideas, but the problem with Twitter is that it’s hard to have a coherent conversation at 140 keystrokes a pop. How convenient, then, that I was trying to figure out what to write for Contact when the question popped up on my iPad’s screen. So here–in more than 140 keystrokes–is how I’d like to answer the question of how Islam can be freed from extremism:

Islam doesn’t need to be freed from extremism; non-Muslims in the West need to be freed from our fear of Islam.

The numbers on this are clear. If we assume that the only extremists of immediate concern are actively violent extremists, then we’re really only talking about fewer than one hundredth of one percent of Muslims worldwide. Now, violent Muslims have the capacity to wreak great havoc, and so we probably should be worried about them, but just because they are dangerous doesn’t mean they define the rest of Islam or that Islam needs to be rid of them. Their tiny numbers relative to the rest of Islam suggest that they are such an anomaly that Islam is already rid of them.

If non-Muslims are going to be freed from our fear of Islam, then we need to listen more to the voices of non-violent, non-extremist Muslims, which is to say that we need to start listening to a subset of Muslims that is so large it is pretty much the entire population of Islam.

If non-Muslims are going to be freed from our fear of Muslims, we also need to demand a measure of accountability from our media and from Media-savvy politicians who distort Islam and misconstrue Muslims, with the willing compliance of the American public. We, who are the public, need to care and need to demand peaceable accuracy rather than fearful deception from the heads that talk at us from the glowing screens that capture our attention and speak to our souls.

Now you may be asking what any of this has to do with Advent or Christmas (’tis the season, after all), and while this really is more of a year-round, all-weather kind of message, still this is the time of year when we wait hopefully for a light that shines in the darkness, a light which no darkness can overcome. This is the light of Christ, which illuminates many things, including (we may hope), our prejudices and fears.

My the light of the Christ Child come to us and so fill our lives with hope that we will have courage to be freed from our fears and live in peace with all God’s children, including those who pray with their eyes and ears inclined toward Mecca.

Peace,
Ben

 

Join Us for Christmas Eve Services

Sunday, December 13th, 2015

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silent nightCHRISTMAS EVE SERVICES
We will have two services this year.

5:30 PM, Family Service
followed by cookies & cider reception
9:00 PM, Candlelight service

What’s the difference? Well, the first service is specifically intended for children’s participation while the second is a little more solemn. The full choir will sing at the first service while the second will feature a quartet of singers. Although the second service will be more in darkness and with a more contemplative tone, BOTH services include a chance to light candles and sing Silent Night together. All are welcome!

Photo by Jason Short, Flickr https://flic.kr/p/dDWw5g Creative Commons license

 

 

Youth Group Reminders

Thursday, December 10th, 2015

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I’ve been out sick for a few days. I’m back to work today, but too late to get a regular piece written for Contact. If you call me, you can hear my nice baritone voice on the phone – the remnants of the cold I’m getting over.

I’ll use this slot to get in a quick reminder for Youth Group members and families however —
This Sunday is our Christmas Party! Wear your best Christmas sweaters, hats, antlers, or haloes… bring an inexpensive gift for the gift-exchange game… and be ready to SING. We begin at 5:30pm with study hall in the Family Room, followed by a 6:30pm pasta dinner (you can bring a side dish if you want, or just come… gluten-free is available), and from 7-9pm there will be games, singing, etc.

Thanks for your patience, while I took these much-needed sick days. May you all be healthy.
Blessings, Talitha

 

We Choose Welcome

Thursday, December 10th, 2015

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Friends,
As I was fighting writer’s block, looking for inspiration for this week’s contact piece, I came across the news that a certain prominent American politician had called for laws banning all Muslims from immigrating to the United States.

Now, because this is a church publication I am not allowed to name said politician, lest by my criticism of him, we lose our tax-exempt status, so I’ll just say this is a politician whose likes to employ superlative adjectives, a man who claims expertise in building beautiful walls, and whose name—though I cannot say or write it—rhymes with “dump.” This Mr. Dump has claimed on a couple of occasions that he is a Presbyterian, and while I am not in any position to judge the man’s fidelity to Presbyterian doctrine, I will point out the following:

  1. Immigrant bullying is not something you’d expect out of a good Presbyterian, especially in a season dedicated to the anticipation of the birth of a Child who, early in life, was a refugee;
  2. A Presbyterian familiar with the denomination will know that Presbyterians—from Donadina Cameron a century ago to Primera Iglesia Hispana in Oakland today—long have supported immigrants, especially immigrant refugees; and
  3. If Mr. Dump really wants to know what Presbyterians think of welcoming Muslim refugees, I suggest he take a look at the following photo, which I found on the Presbyterian Church (USA)’s official Twitter feed.

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This photo was taken in response to the Governor of Maryland’s decision to add his name to the list of Governors seeking a ban on Syrian refugees, and I believe it reflects a true Presbyterian spirit, especially in the season of Advent, when the Christ comes first (at least in Matthew’s telling of the story) to foreigners.

If you run into Mr. Dump, please teach him what it means to be a good Presbyterian.

Meanwhile, I pray you may have a blessed Advent.
Salaam, Ben

 

Simple Gifts

Friday, December 4th, 2015

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As part of our series on “discovering choices,” the MPC Youth Group recently spent a meeting discussing how we make our choices for Christmas shopping. For some youth, this is one of their first real budgeting and buying experiences, using money saved up from odd jobs or babysitting to try to bring joy to their family and friends. We watched a fun video (only 3 minutes – give it a look) challenging us to simultaneously spend less and give more. And no, it wasn’t referring to the mad dash of sale-shopping we have just witnessed as people snatch up deals at 75% off, 85% off, 95% off (which leaves us wondering why our corporate overlords literally pay us to purchase their products far below retail prices). No, “spend less and give more” was calling us to find simpler ways to do the whole holiday shopping/giving process… Spending time instead of money, purchasing experiences rather than objects, sending gifts that are practical and homemade (perhaps edible), and making significant charity donations to bring real peace on earth.

Our church knows about this, of course. Giving To The World has been allowing us easy ways to make “alternative” gifts that are much closer to the core of Christmas’ meaning for many, many years (Editor’s note: Visit the GTTW table at Family Hour Dec. 6, 13, and 20th). And I know for a fact that this congregation is full of cooks, artisans, bakers, and expertly crafty up-cyclers, rich with talent and experience, who make simple, delicious, non-polluting and meaningful gifts… without contributing too much credit card debt to the grand total of $465,000,000,000 that America annually spends on Christmas. We know the importance of spending our money in the local economy, and the importance of investing in quality rather than quantity. Some of us even choose to opt out of the gift bonanza, and just keep it simple.

My favorite Christmas memory as a child was waking up to find sleds in the living room… and all of our stuffed animals, who had been liberated from our beds by Santa and his elves, were playing in and around the sleds. It was a snowy winter in New York and we made good use of those sleds. But the surprise and delight of finding all our stuffed animals posed and playing together actually overshadowed the sleds as gift-objects, and became an enduring tradition in the Given/Phillips household. On the other hand, there were those days when it felt like we just sat in the living room unwrapping and opening boxes for hours. The interminable parade of scarves and sweaters and interesting kitchen implements seemed to go on forever in such a large family, and held no such delight.

We have a lot of choices when it comes to the holidays, and I’d encourage you not to let anybody else’s expectations rule your choices this year. Spend if you will, but don’t count or compare. Craft and bake and upcycle gifts if you can, but don’t let the oppressive standards of the age of Pinterest (where perfect crafts are competitively photographed from every perfect angle) discourage you. Give as much as you can, keeping in mind the great charity options that allow your tiny bit of money to bring great peace, joy, and hope to those in deepest need. Above all, give generously, without strings attached – whether it is of your money, your time, your talent, or the greatest gift of all, yourself.

Every Blessing,
Talitha

 

 

 

 

Hope in a moment of sadness

Friday, December 4th, 2015

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Now it’s my turn to say something about the “War on Christmas,” and by this I’m not referencing the use of spiritually-neutral seasonal greetings such as “Happy Holidays” (I’m content anytime anyone says anything nice to me), and this isn’t a rant against the commercialization of the season (now that Thanksgiving has come and gone I’m thrilled to see shops and streets decked with boughs of holly; besides I love getting and giving gifts as much as the next guy). Nor is this a complaint about all the ways Santa has replaced Jesus (every society needs its mythical beings, its saints and avatars and, for better or for worse, we’re stuck with Santa; besides I’m kind of glad our society has trivialized Saint Nicholas and spared Jesus); and with one exception I’m not going to protest secular popular songs, but that one musical exception will be the focus of my rhetorical wrath for the next few paragraphs.

I am pained every time I hear the commonly-used lyric modification of the holiday classic, “Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas.” When the song first appeared in the 1944 movie “Meet Me In Saint Louis,” it was a song of hope sung in a moment of sadness. A family was leaving their community and circle of friends St. Louis to move to New York, and the sadness of that parting resonated with the millions of Americans who had experienced separations–both temporary and permanent–that had been caused by World War II.

But after World War II, the lyrics seemed too dark. Frank Sinatra insisted on a new set of verses for his 1957 album “A Jolly Christmas” and so the song that once longed for a better tomorrow, became a celebration of a happy now.

For example, in the movie, Judy Garland sings:
Someday soon we all will be together if the fates allow
Until then we’ll just have to muddle through somehow

And then Frank Sinatra insisted on:
From now on we all will be together if the fates allow
Hang a shining star upon the highest bough

And Sinatra’s version has dominated recordings of the song ever since, which is a shame. The joy of Christmas is a great gift of grace, and part of what makes the happiness of this season so wonderful is that it is complex. It doesn’t just celebrate today (after all today isn’t always so great), it hopes for a better tomorrow. Light shines in the darkness of the night, but we cannot appreciate the light if we do not also become acquainted with the night.

The change of lyrics in “Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas” is typical of an American tendency to pretend everything is good and everyone is happy. This reflects a heartfelt and even healthy longing for things to be good, but that desire cannot ignore the reality that for many people and in many places, life is hard and sad. Light and comfort and hope are needed.

It is essential that churches be communities where people don’t have to pretend they are happy or that everything is going swimmingly. Advent is a season when we prepare for Christmas and anticipate the joy of Jesus’ arrival, but we do so as people waiting in darkness, acquainted with all of the ways we need to find healing, and all of the obstacles we yet shall overcome.

So dearly beloved, muddle through Advent and then have yourself a merry little Christmas. And here’s a link to the scene where Judy Garland sings the original version in Meet Me In St. Louis.

Peace,
Ben

 

Christmas Carol Sing-Along & Dinner – Tuesday, Dec 8th

Tuesday, December 1st, 2015

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Like Christmas Carols? So do we. Join us for a Christmas Carol Sing-Along on Wednesday, December 8th. We’ll start off with a simple meal in the Family Room at 6pm, then move into the Sanctuary at 7pm for carols. Everyone will have a caroling songbook, and we’ll take turns choosing which one to sing next. It’s a fun evening and a great way to help get into the Christmas spirit. The meal is free and the event is open to all.

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Earth Care – Tuesday Dec 8th Action

Tuesday, December 1st, 2015

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coal-rally-compJoin us Dec. 8 (Tuesday at 5:30) for a rally and demonstration at Oakland City Hall to tell the Oakland City Council to Ban Coal in Oakland. From Earth Care (formerly SPLASH)  Contact Sari Kulberg 510-653-6432 for more info.

(Photo source: Sunflower Alliance)

 

Outside links for more information about this effort and event:

Oakland Fossil Fuel Resistance

Facebook page – Coal Free Oakland